Living Life in Malaysia as an Expatriot | UK Expat

by Joseph on June 22, 2010

UK EXPAT

I now live out in Kuching (old Malay for “cat”) simply because I like it so much! My work does sometimes take its toll on me – I search engine optimize for websites and make a little income from it too ;-) . But my work provides the freedom to travel and live where I want to live.

What does that mean – search engine optimize? It means to rank websites (web pages) in the search engines (particularly Google) high enough so they are found by you, the searcher – how did you find this site? You seached for Damai beach resort or something along those lines, right? Or maybe, for “Kuching hotels” or simply, “Kuching“.

As a sidenote here, which may be of interest to you – this site currenlty receives around 90% of its visitors from Malaysia and Singapore. About 5% are from Australia. Why would this be? Simply because westerners in general are not familiar with “Damai”. The main way to find this site is by searching for words related to “Damai”.

I am close to ranking top 10 in Google for both “Kuching” and “Kuching hotels”. Those keyword phrases have much greater volume of searches, and many more from western countries besides. But, do I really want to encourage westerners to encroach upon this wonderful place, or is it best to keep it to myself? ;-) :-)

Anyhow, I just gave this website a long-needed makeover by installing a new theme and adding a series of new images in the top right corner. I think it looks nice, hope you agree? I used to make no money from the site, but I have more recently monetized it with some affiliate links. It does make an income, but I need to work on the search engine optimizing harder to see more results.

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Kuching is not the most beautiful city in the world, that’s for sure! But it has got a lot of character, and its relatively laid back in some respects. There are about 660 thousand inhabitants according to the most recent stats, most of whom are Chinese. The city is growing in population, and growing rather fast too!

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Why do I like it here so much? After all I am from what could be argued as one of the most beautiful (small) and most historic cities in the world – Edinburgh in Scotland, and Kuching is nothing at all like that.

Its my laid back lifestyle! (Don’t get me wrong here – I often work 100+ hour weeks online). I spent 30 years living in Scotland – mostly Edinburgh, and 5 years in Ayr, which is a lovely place – I love Ayr! 8 years in-all within England – a year in Suffolk and 7 years in Warwickshire/Northants. I’ve now been in Kuching for just over the past 8 months (first visited in 2008 and stayed for 11 weeks).

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Its not only the stunningly gorgeous food – which is on the whole, so much cheaper than the United Kingdom. Its not only the weather – I like it warm all the time as I can’t handle the cold of the UK which lasts about 6 or 7 months of the year.

Here in Sarawak you can leave the patio doors open all the time. The windows wide open all the time. You can walk about with shorts on all day and all night – all the time. I’ve never put on my jacket since I came here over 8 months previously. This is freedom, in a certain fashion, anyhow.

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Kuching Laksa

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But its not only that.

Its not necessarily just about how the people here (mostly) like Westerners. Yes, the old colonial days seem to be thought of (perceived) highly here in Kuching (after all, the Japanese ruled here for 3 years during World War II and you can perhaps imagine the terrible atrocities committed during that time!), whereas in many other parts of the world, colonialism is now treated with contempt. And I understand exactly why, too!

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Take for example just yesterday. I popped down the street for a haircut. I paid 18 ringitt, which is about £3.75 (the UK pound is way down against the ringitt at the moment – change in Government has not helped one bit either!). In US dollars that currently would be around $5.55.

Now in the UK you would expect to pay just less than 3 times this amount, and the service would probably be not nearly as “deferential”. The gentleman who cut my hair was so attentive, even though he did not speak much English and my Cantonese or Mandarin is non-existant.

I find learning the local languages – Mandarin, Cantonese, Hokkien, Hakka (no, not Haka – the New Zealand rugby team dance), and Bahasa Malaysian – well, they are very tricky indeed and don’t sit well with my western mind. Give me Italian, French or Spanish languages and I although I’m not at all good at them, if I lived in those countries I know I would pick the lingo up relatively soon.

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So, back to the point – I paid just over a third of what I used to pay in the UK and I am treated with a lot of respect and provided with a superb haircut to boot! Starting to see what I mean about living here? Quality of life is superior for sure!

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More to come – I’m just gonna have breakfast then I come back and complete this article.

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I’ll put in an image just above, in this article – its a food called laksa. Its incredible! I’ve never tasted anything like it and you can get a large bowl of it just like the one in the image for 4 ringitt, which is around 85 pence – $1.25 US.

I don’t tend to eat seafood but prawns I can’t help but to love. In the UK even small prawns are expensive – the ones you buy frozen. Here in Kuching – Sarawak, you can get these great big prawns (tiger or jumbo) in a bowl of laksa and its still well below a pound sterling or just over a dollar US. Talk about quality living!

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Now I know there is a lot of “oh but the fo0d is dirty and you should not eat it or you get food poisoning and worse – for sure!”. My old mate back in England is one of the worst for that! We used to watch the occasional cooking programme on television and where the cuisine was Thai. He – my friend, would say “oh how can you eat that hawker Thai food – so dirty!”

Well, I eat out at local hawker centers about 4 – 6 times a week on average. In all I’ve spent about 11 months here. That means I ate at hawker centers well in excess of 250 times now. One time I had food poisoning.

In my mind that one time of coming down with food poisoning is well worth it when you consider how cheap the food is, how great the atmosphere can be at those hawker centers, and simply how stunningly delicious the food is! Its fresh, its tasty, its colourful – its gorgeous! And I don’t have to wash any dishes or do the cooking, thankfully!

Much more to come on this – the “expat living in Kuching, Malaysia”.

Oh and as a final note. I see on the television time and again on those travel programs about the best places to holiday in around the world. I see how incredibly expensive those places are – Bermuda, Maldives, Maui, St Andrews in Scotland (if you like the golf), Edinburgh and indeed London!

I look around here where I live and some of the hotels are delightful, but affordable. The beaches are equally as stunning as those in Hawaii, but to stay nearby in a hotel over-looking the ocean (take Damai Beach resort or Damai Puri as an excellent example here!!) would be so, so much cheaper here. And the food here is equal or better to anything I have ever tasted in my 43 years. I rest my case!

Kuching, the city of the cat, is the place for me!

{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

HoneyJo June 24, 2010 at 3:33 am

Joseph,

You are really tempting me with this site.

That place is unbelievable! A lot of US citizens retire to the coastal American towns in Mexico for the same things you have mentioned in Kuching, on this site.

Beautiful beaches, cheap living, being able to afford to hire household help, great and inexpensive food, low cost housing, etc..

But, they all know ‘THAT THEY MUST NEVER BE ON THE ROADS AFTER DARK’. for fear of their lives.

So you see, that is one of the main reason’s Kuching must be real close to Heaven.. To visit or to live! They would not need to be afraid to go out at night.

No wonder you choose Malaysia to call home. What a life! And the expenses are oh so cheap…

Don’t you ever tell me that you work hard, your work (at least until your battery runs down) can all be done while lying on a show white beach. With a Mai Tai in you hand and your lady at your side.

I would love to live there, lived in Galveston and on the Mississippi beaches a good portion of my early years, so Kushing sounds like HEAVEN to me..

Maybe someday I can get there, but in the mean time just keep writing about it. So, I will know what I have to look forward to.. U C

HoneyJo

admin June 24, 2010 at 6:12 am

Hi HJ and great to have you here on my new pride and joy of a website! New? Nope – its 18 months old, but you know what I mean, right?

Yes you are quite right Joyce, Kuching is not a place to be afraid of at night. Certainly not in my experience anyhow!

My girlfriend often says to me “are you missing home yet?” I say to her “home? I am home…”.

I miss Scotland for its lush green land, its ghostly castles, the beautiful lochs and underground cities. I miss the sound of the bagpipes and I miss the funny accent. I miss (real) cheese very much. But no, Kuching is my home and I sense it will be my home for a long time to come, maybe even to my dying day – particularly if I can get myself an ocean-front house which has always been my dream!

Yes, I take your point – ‘work’ can be done while sitting on the beach, or sitting on my balcony overlooking the swimming pool in the gardens where I live. Its totally wonderful! And the good thing about working online – being your own boss, is that you still earn while lying on the beach with a Mai Tai or a Tsing Tau in hand. Sounds idyllic I know, but I do work this business very hard indeed, as you know.

I’ve never been to Galveston, or to Mississipi I’m afraid. Nor to the States actually, albeit I’ve travelled quite a lot of Europe and now South East Asia too. I would love to go see a football game, as you girlz & guys call it. For us Brits football is our game, so I think to be technically correct – American Football.

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I watch those programmes on television about the “best holiday destinations in the world”. I kinda shake my head cos to be honest what I am seeing on the television is what I see here fairly regularly. Silver sand or golden beaches stretching as far as the eye can see, swaying palm trees, tightly clipped hibiscus hedges coming into blossom, and orchids growing in peoples gardens. Why would I need to go to Maui?

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Ok HJ I will keep on writing about Kuching, Sarawak and Malaysia and adding to the website. I was thinking about travelling to one or 2 of the islands (such as the Perhentians) around these parts and taking lots of photos. That’s for the future.

For now I want to focus a lot on ranking the current web pages even more than what they are doing now – which is good actually, so no complaints there at all. I got a number of top spots to go for which I would expect to be seeing happening in the next couple of weeks. I suspect a number of webmasters (and web mistresses) may get a bit of a nasty shock to see that their own website which has been ranking top spot for the past couple of years is no longer top!

Talk soon HJ and thanks again for stopping by the Damai/Kuching hot spot website!

Joseph

Cyril Dason July 20, 2010 at 6:42 am

My girlfriend often says to me “are you missing home yet?” I say to her “home? I am home…”. This is the best quote in ur comment.

I love the article. :-) Will be reading more..
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nalisa July 20, 2010 at 7:12 am

Joseph,

As a Kuchingite, I must say I’m glad that you like living there. I feel real proud of my home city and having a foreigner singing praises of Kuching makes me even prouder of it.

And on your lifestyle, you get to be your own boss & earn money by working online? I’m totally jealous. I have been trying to do the same couple years ago but sadly due to lack of knowledge it didn’t go anywhere. Now I’m trying to look for ways to earn online. That’s why your other website seems like a good source of info for me. Hopefully this time I’ll succeed :)
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Joseph July 20, 2010 at 7:44 am

The whole truth and nothing but the truth, Cyril! As I said on FaceBook – “home is where the heart is” and thus, this is my home and will be for a long time to come!

Thanks very much for your comment! Nice to be a part of Sarawak Bloggers!

Cheers!
Joseph

Joseph July 20, 2010 at 7:56 am

You have a great many reasons to be proud, Nalisa! I know there are many people who want to escape from Sarawak, to find where the grass is greener. I understand this entirely, because for some the grass is always greener elsewhere, or so they believe, at least. I have now found where pastures are the greenest, and I shall remain to nourish my soul for a great many years to come!

Yeah, I search engine optimize for a living. Can be hugely lucrative, and I personally have had quite a few folks approach me and offer me “silly money” to SEO for them. I very rarely do though – if I do then it becomes a j.o.b. and I lose my sense of freedom. So even though I work masses of hours, I still have the choice of doing so or not doing so. That is a very pleasing choice to have!

It is not easy making a living online and most people who start simply give up, as you yourself have done. The only reason I am successful is that I left myself no choice – either I succeed at SEO and working online, or I would most probably live out my life being unhappy and unfulfilled, stuck in some j.o.b. Some days and weeks and months were spent being thoroughly depressed due to my inability to succeed. But I had to ‘get up and fight on’.

Here I am, now living in Kuching, some 10 thousand miles from where I have resided for the first half of my life. That is “freedom”! I wake every morning and feel free, and with freedom comes a sense of (near) fulfillment and happiness for life!

Got questions regards to your own internet marketing, then feel free to ask away. I’m all ears…

Thanks for coming by here Nalisa, much appreciated!

Joseph

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